Freedom to Success, Peace to Happiness

Always choose to be happy first

Short Story: 

I  was  with  a  partner  years  before, I’ve  thought  we  are  fine,  that  we  are  in  a  good  relationship. Everytime  He  come  home,  He  always  come  to  our  home  ( because He is living Abroad) ,  everytime  we  talk  about  our  life , our  family  He is  always  saying  He choose  us (our family) . Because  I  have  a very strong  intuitive  about  how  I  can  feel,  about  what  I  can  see  in  his  action but  there  are  times  that  are  not  appropriate  anymore  on  what  he’s  saying  from  his  actions. I  was  so  confused  what  is  really  the  truth  about  him,  He said  He  dont  love  me  but  He  is  giving  everything  for  Us  even though  I  am  not  asking  , He  can  even  laugh  without me making  effort  to  make  him  laugh  or  happy…. then  things  more  happenned…. fighting ,  arguing,  and  so  on….

Freedom

I  kept my  family to be a whole family  for  the  sake  of  my  son,  but  then  it  was  been  too  much  because it  even  comes  to  point  that  my  partner  sleep  with  my  friend. So painful, so much  hurt  because  I  love  him  and  He  just  did  that without  a  signal. So, that  Time  I  gave  my  word  to  let  him  go  whatever  he  wants  to  go  and whatever He wants do in his life,  I  gave  his Freedom  to finds  his  real  Happiness….

It was not easy for me to let go of the man you I love , And for him as well, He didn’t to go away from me and the family we build , he didn’t want to go with the woman He slept with. He keep saying it was a mistake and he regret…. but , It’s too late …. Things have been done and It’s done.

Freedom  is  not  that  easy  to  do, It’s not easy to give in to person you love, Honestly  its  very  hard  to give  up  everything  based  on  that  is  what happening at  that  moment . In fact , grown-up  people  cannot  just  decide  immediately,  it  takes times  to  decide  because  its hurts   much  when  it  comes  on  making  decision  specially  about  family . How  to  have Freedom  for  yourself: 

How  to  have  Freedom  for  yourself:

• Think  many  times NOT  just  once.
  • when making a big decisions, give times for yourself before give a final words, Because there are decisions that cannot be change immediately or sudden change. Your decisions will affects important people in your life or even the people involved of the situations.

• See  the  advantages / disadvantages  of  your  actions  or  decisions.
  • when making decisions, think of the things possible might happen after. Because if you made a bad decisions, it might bring you to worse situations… but if you think, that makes you feel better then choose your feelings. Just be ready of the possibility of changing.

• Accept  the  pain  from  all  the  result  that  will  gonna  happen  after  of  letting go.
  • Making decisions is a serious thing, It always have a result. It’s either bad or good result … that’s the concept of making decisions in Life to be happy, to be able to have the best freedom you want, be careful and aware of your own comfort zone.

• Avoid  things  that  make  you  difficult.
  • this is very important, specially when you are at your most difficult situations. Give space for yourself, give time for your yourself please. Because when you take actions during your difficult times It may lead you into worst.

• Do  something  that  you  love , what  makes  you  smile.
  • if you have hobby, do it… if you love nature go outside… something that you love to , Do it…. when you feel tired, you rest.
• Avoid  people  that  pulling  you  down.
  • simple, you know yourself who they are.

• Be with people that motivate you, encourage you, and believes in you.
  • Simple, you know who are those people make you happy. If no one Believes in you, Believes in your own self 🙂 ,,,, its the best … I did it fir myself…

Your  Freedom  is dependent on yourself , if you take actions to change your life you will Succeed. Lil by lil it will change, Freedom is a powerful actions to do and create such beautiful things in your life , and to conquer all the obstacles ? use your Freedom to control your life and you will Succeed.

Success

Success  is  not  only  about  career,  its  also  imply  about  Life  with  peace  and  happy  life.  You  don’t  need  to  be  rich  to be  called  Success, Because  success  is  where  you  are  truly  happy  with  your  life.  Happiness  is  Success.

Success is not solely defined by your career, but also by the peace and happiness you experience in life. Wealth does not necessarily equate to success , as success truly achieved when you are content with your life. Happiness is the true measure of success.

The measure of True Success is Happiness and Peace in life… Implies that achieving success should not only focus on material wealth, recognitions, or social status…. on One’s Emotional and Mental well-being as well . True Success is about about finding true purpose, Joy, and Fulfillment in Life, as well as maintaining the sense of Inner Peace and Balance.

What truly matters are not the possessions or accomplishments of a person, but the quality of Relationship, the moments that bring you the greatest Happiness, and the positive impact that you have on others. true Success is not just about achieving material wealth or status…. Finding Happiness and contentment in the present moment as well….. while making the positive impact on the world around you.